In really life, the house always wins!

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Happy Thanksgivings! As we give thanks, it a good time to reflect and acknowledge that every human interaction is a power and influence negotiation and the House always wins. Should you win within the rules of the house, it’s that you are serving the greater purpose of the house unless your burned the house down in which case everyone lost! It is therefore important that you be the one who built the house, laid down the structure and the rules of the game. At the very least know the rules, know who made the structure and why. In all interactions there are two types of power, the structural power which stems from the rules and structure of the interaction and the exchange power which stems from the interaction within the structure. The interaction within the house can either be coercive or cooperative, either way the structure, the house determines the outcome.
I write from experience of mentoring and coaching, it’s disheartening to see how many youth were brought up feeling that in life everyone should win!

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